Being Your Best Self

This time next year, will you be wiser, more thoughtful, and living a life you dream of? Or just a year older? Always take time to sharpen the saw.

How to Displace the Good in Your Life to Make Room for Something Better

Margin doesn’t suddenly appear

Nature abhors a vacuum. If you take something away, something else has to move in to take its place. Nature also doesn’t like two things occupying the same place at the same time. In order for something to come in, whatever is currently there has to move out. It sounds like a problem for a […]

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Are You Focused on the Pony or its Aftermath?

What one of Reagan’s favorite jokes tells you about your attitude

One of Ronald Reagan’s favorite jokes speaks volumes about how our expectations influence our experiences.

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Do You Trust Yourself to Get a Job Done?

How to Reestablish Trust with the Person in the Mirror

If you had a friend who told you they’d be there to help you move on Saturday then didn’t show up, how would you feel? Once, fine. Things happen. Every time? You’re not going to trust them any more. They’ve overdrawn the account. They might be there for the good times, but you won’t trust […]

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What Are You Bringing to the Barbecue?

How you’ve kept past commitments tells others what to expect

Everyone can bring something to the table. Your job is to help everyone make the greatest contribution they can.

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Why You Must Claim Your Time First

Think about what it says about your priorities

Do you give everyone else first claim on your time? You’re setting yourself up for failure and frustration. Claim your time first and you’ll be in a better position to help others.

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Life Lessons from 84 Holes of Golf

“Par for the course” is doing really well

Life is one shot after another. Sometimes you can’t find your ball; sometimes you look like you know what you’re doing. Play on.

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Why You Have to Care for Yourself First

Your First Stewardship is Your Self

It’s in every preflight safety training, even the epic ones: “Put on your own oxygen mask before helping someone else with theirs.” On his Smarter Every Day YouTube channel, Destin Sandlin induced hypoxia in himself—under the close supervision of professionals, including a flight surgeon—to demonstrate the effects. By the end, he couldn’t figure out how […]

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Can You Sleep Through the Storm?

Deal with problems on your terms

Life storms are going to come. You can deal with them as they happen, or you can deal with them on your terms.

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