self-awareness

One is Never As Good As Two Should Be

Differences are the Key to Synergy and Creativity

LEGO pieces are fun because of the variety. Don’t limit yourself to building with just one kind of brick.

2:45 read (542 words)

How to Keep Pride from Becoming Your Weakness

Five Proven Strategies to Strengthen Your Relationships

Pride can be a good thing—a tool to reward growth and development. If you let it get out of hand, it will become your greatest weakness.

3:10 read (638 words)

Why You Need Feedback

5 Ways Another Perspective Will Help You Grow Faster

Without feedback, you’re stumbling around, going through the motions without creating real value. If you really want to grow, ask someone how you’re doing.

3:10 read (628 words)

It’s Okay to Sulk

Three Questions to Turn Frustration to Your Advantage

When things don’t work out as planned, it’s frustrating. It’s okay to sulk, but the sooner you get past the disappointment, the sooner you can start shaping your world again.

2:45 read (544 words)

Talk to the Duck

Let a little yellow friend help you find the answers to the tough questions

One of the most useful programming techniques I’ve picked up is one they definitely didn’t cover in college. It can help you sort out all kinds of problems.

2:40 read (539 words)

Keep Asking Why

Peel away the excuses until you get to the reason

Keep asking questions until you understand what happened and how to influence it. It’s a management technique that three-year-olds have down pat.

2:30 read (506 words)

Are Imaginary Arguments Making You Miserable?

Stop making up reasons to be unhappy

You have enough problems to deal with without making up new ones. Take a step back and consider why you’re doing it.

3:00 read (604 words)

Are You Driving on a Flat Tire?

When a need isn’t being met, all our energy goes to meeting it

When one of our basic needs isn’t being met, it’s like trying to drive a car with a flat tire. Stop and take time to fix it.

2:55 read (588 words)

The Basic Human Needs that Drive Us

If you want to understand behavior, understand the needs that drive it

In 1943, Abraham Maslow described five fundamental levels of human needs. If you want to understand (or change) behavior, start by understanding the needs behind it.

2:45 read (549 words)